Is Someone Spying on Your Phone? 5 Red Flags to Watch For, According to a Spyware Expert

A spyware expert just dropped five signs that your ex, partner, or some random stalker might be tracking your phone without you knowing — and modern spyware is so sneaky, it can hide in the background without any obvious signs showing up.

Here’s what to watch for:

🔥 1. Your Battery Is Dying Fast

If your phone is suddenly draining like crazy — even when you’re barely using it — that could mean someone’s running GPS tracking or background apps to follow your location. (Or yes, your phone could just be crusty and old — but if this is new behavior, pay attention.)

🔥 2. Your Phone Heats Up for No Reason

A hot phone that’s just sitting idle on a table isn’t normal. If you’re not gaming, streaming, or baking it in the sun — and it’s still overheating — spyware might be running full speed in the background.

🔥 3. Your Data Usage Skyrockets

Check your phone settings: If your data is spiking for no reason, it might be because spyware is sending info from your phone to whoever’s watching you. A lot of people only find out when their cell provider sends a “you’re about to hit your limit” text.

🔥 4. Strange Texts That Disappear

Some cheap spy apps are controlled by text message commands. If you see weird codes, random characters, or texts that pop up and vanish, that could be a red flag. Especially if they come from unknown numbers.

🔥 5. Your Screen Lights Up on Its Own

This one’s freaky. If your phone lights up out of nowhere when it’s sitting still — and you didn’t touch it — it could be someone accessing your mic, GPS, or camera remotely.

⚠️ What to Do If You Suspect It

Run security software and check for apps you don’t remember installing. Still unsure? Back up what matters and do a full factory reset — but only as a last resort.

Because if your phone’s acting possessed, it might not be haunted…It might just be your toxic ex still lurking in the background.