Men have a reputation for knowing every stat about their favorite sports teams ๐๐ โฆ but forgetting important details about the people theyโre dating. Turns outโthat stereotype might be a little outdated.
A new viral trend shows that some men are secretly keeping โnotesโ on their partners ๐ฑ๐ โ and yes, sometimes itโs literally in the Notes app.
According to an online influencer, these digital cheat sheets include things like favorite snacks ๐ซ, wine preferences ๐ท, clothing sizes ๐, go-to fast-food orders ๐, pizza toppings ๐, coffee orders โ, favorite flowers ๐ธ, books theyโre reading ๐, and even hobbies theyโre currently obsessed with ๐จ๐ฎ.
Naturally, this is most common with guys who are newly dating or early in relationships ๐ โ but even men in long-term relationships admit they keep notes to stay up to date on what their partner loves right now.
The idea? Men are listening ๐ โ and they donโt want to mess it up. As one guy put it:
โOf course we pay attention. Because if we donโtโฆ someone else will.โ
These mini โrelationship manualsโ help partners feel seen, remembered, and spoiled โจ๐ฅฐ โ and honestly, it might be the most thoughtful thing to come out of the Notes app since grocery lists.
So if he suddenly shows up with your exact coffee order, your favorite snack, and flowers you casually mentioned six weeks agoโฆ๐ฑ๐ Donโt be suspicious. Heโs just taking notes.