A new survey says that more than half of Americans think it’s totally fine to use a coupon on a first date, and some even find it… sexy? Yep. According to the data, 61% say frugality is attractive, and 28% say it’s straight-up hot.
So if you’re out here flexing your rewards points or suggesting happy hour for the two-for-one margaritas—you might actually be winning.
Other big takeaways from the survey:
- 56% have been turned off by someone trying too hard to impress by spending a lot.
- $125 is the unofficial spending limit people feel comfortable with on a first date.
- 37% say they’d be impressed if their date used points or discounts to save money.
- 48% are cool with splitting the bill, but heads up fellas—only 32% of women say they’d want a second date if they had to go halfsies, compared to 70% of men.
But don’t get it twisted—there’s a big difference between being frugal and being cheap. While 60% of daters say they want someone who looks for deals, they also say cheap is:
- Not tipping (34%)
- Being stingy in a way that affects others (25%)
- Refusing to spend on fun or experiences (12%)
So, go ahead—grab that BOGO sushi deal, rack up those points, and don’t be afraid to flex your budgeting skills. Just don’t be cheap about it.
Moral of the story? A discount might not just save your wallet… it might save your dating life too.
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